‘Dreaming big’ as children could lead to disappointment later in life

BASEL, Switzerland — Telling children to “dream big” when they grow up could be doing more harm than good. A new study by international researchers finds that having unrealistic aspirations as a teen could have a negative effect during adulthood.

Researchers from the University of Basel and Universidad Carlos III de Madrid followed the lives of over 17,000 people in the United Kingdom who were all born in the same week in 1958. They analyzed data on the participants’ childhood environments, their parents’ professional and financial backgrounds, each child’s own abilities, their aspirations when they were younger, their job, and their well-being as an adult.

“This database is unique,” says study co-author and economist Dr. Reto Odermatt in a university release.

The database analyzed how the aspirations of children and young people affect them when they’re adults. Some of the questions researchers asked included “how far did they get in their education?” and “what was the job with the highest prestige that they held during their working life?”

Researchers say the educational and career aspirations, along with cognitive skills, were among the most critical predictors overall for the participants’ later success. Researchers found that ambitious career goals motivated participants to invest more in their future career success.

Parents’ education linked to child’s aspirations

However, the opposite is also true. Researchers say that young people whose parents had less education had less ambitious career goals. This led to limited social mobility for those participants.

“This cannot be explained solely by the differences in family income or in participants’ abilities. It is more the case that inequality seems to begin early on, with their very aspirations,” notes Odermatt.

Researchers were surprised at how a parent’s aspirations for their children had an effect on a child’s future career goals.

“We didn’t expect parents’ aspirations for their children to have such a strong influence,” says Odermatt.

Is there a downside to ‘dreaming big’?

The study also revealed the other side of “dreaming big” and the disappointments that could follow. Researchers found a negative impact on life satisfaction during early adulthood if participants achieved less than what they aspired to when they were younger. However, these negative effects dissipated in their later working lives.

On the other hand, researchers did find that if participants achieved more than they aspired to, it coincided with an increase in positive well-being.

“The fact that we were able to show how teenage aspirations affect life satisfaction much later in life is one of the strengths of the study,” explains Odermatt.

Researchers hope their findings can offer an opportunity to downsize social inequality. They believe politicians should take measures to help disadvantaged children increase their social advancement.

“That means we shouldn’t leave it entirely to parents to influence children’s career aspirations; schools can intervene,” says Odermatt, adding that teachers should encourage their students to look beyond their own horizons.

The findings appear in the journal European Economic Review.

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