Kids who feel poorer than their friends more likely to have mental health problems

CAMBRIDGE, United Kingdom — Youngsters who try to keep up with richer friends are more likely to have worse mental health than those who feel economically equal, a new study reveals.

Researchers from the University of Cambridge say feeling poorer can lead to lower self-esteem, anxiety, and behavior problems such as anger issues or hyperactivity. Those who felt equal in wealth had much higher self-esteem and behaved better socially, with those who felt poorer or richer than their friends being more likely to bully others.

Researchers link their findings to a difficulty to feel a sense of belonging when feeling economically inadequate.

“Adolescence is an age of transitions, when we use social comparisons to make self-judgments and develop our sense of self,” says study lead author Blanca Piera Pi-Sunyer, a Cambridge Gates Scholar and PhD candidate in the university’s Department of Psychology, in a media release.

“A sense of our economic position not just in wider society, but in our immediate environment, might be problematic for our sense of belonging,” Piera Pi-Sunyer adds. “Belonging is particularly important for well-being and psychosocial functioning during adolescence.”

“It may be that feeling different in any way at a time when belonging is important increases the risk of interpersonal difficulties such as bullying,” the researcher continues. “Our research suggests that wealth comparisons with those around us might contribute to a sense of social and personal self-worth when we are young.”

It is very common for young people to compare themselves with their friends in many ways. Along with financial insecurities, adolescence can be a constant stream of anxiety over popularity, attractiveness, and many other things.

Disadvantaged children more likely to be bullied

The researchers analyzed perceived economic inequality within friendship groups of 12,995 11-year-olds in the United Kingdom. They surveyed children who were born between 2000 and 2002 and gathered data on their family income.

The self-esteem of those who thought they were poorer than their friends was six to eight percent lower than those who felt equal. They also scored 11 percent lower in well-being than those who saw themselves as economically equal to their friends.

The children who felt poor in their friendship groups were 17 percent more likely to report being bullied compared to those who felt they were in the same financial position as their friends. On the flip side, those who felt richer or poorer than friends were three to five percent more likely to bully others.

By the time the participants reached the age of 14, the levels of bullying dropped off, but those who felt poorer were still eight percent more likely to be a victim of bullying than those who felt economically similar to their friends.

Overall, the majority of children felt they were as wealthy as their friends, but four percent felt they were poorer, while eight percent felt they were richer. Of all the 11-year-olds in the study, 16 percent said they didn’t know how they compared to their friends.

“Many studies suggest that, objectively, young people from disadvantaged backgrounds have more mental health difficulties. Our findings show that the subjective experience of disadvantage is also relevant,” says Piera Pi-Sunyer.

“You do not have to be rich or poor to feel richer or poorer than your friends, and we can see this affects the mental health of young adolescents.”

The study is published in the Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry.

South West News Service writer Alice Clifford contributed to this report.

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